A few weeks ago, while researching my grandfather’s story, I started looking more closely into his “step-family.” The 1940 census showed that Stephen Reed was living in St. Joseph, Missouri, with his identified wife, Margaret, and her two daughters: Dulcie, who was 20 and listed as married, and Rose, age 15. To learn more about this new family, I began digging further.
I discovered that Dulcie later remarried, and Rose appeared in the 1950 census living in a residential nursing home. I also located her death certificate from 1973. Census records labeled her as “unable to work,” but there’s no clear explanation as to why. What we do know is that by 1950, she was no longer living with family. This prompted me to explore the types of institutions that existed at the time for adults with special needs, whether due to physical or mental impairments.
Historically, Americans who were infirm, physically disabled, or mentally challenged, young and old, were often kept out of sight, either housed by family or placed in almshouses. Some were cared for by religious or charitable institutions. A significant change came with the passage of the Social Security Act in 1935, which provided assistance for older Americans. This spurred the development of more independent residential homes, and it appears that Rose was living in one of them.
The 1950 census lists her as a lodger in a nursing home operated by a widow named Aletha Wells, who lived there with her father, Wayne Urquhart (also widowed). The home was a large Victorian brick house, formerly the Henry Mayer House, likely typical of older residences that had fallen out of fashion and were subdivided into boarding arrangements. Although the federal government had started providing grants for hospital-affiliated nursing homes a few years earlier, homes like this remained common.
The Wells home had 13 lodgers. With the exception of Rose, who was just 25, the others were all aged 75 to 93. This type of institution resembled a rooming house more than a modern nursing facility. Residents lived in individual or shared rooms, used common bathrooms, and likely ate meals prepared by a hired housekeeper. Medical care would have come from local doctors making house calls. The round-the-clock nursing care we now associate with nursing homes typically didn’t exist outside of hospital-based institutions at that time.
The Wells nursing home faced challenges after 1950. Wayne Urquhart died in 1952 and Aletha in 1956. After her death, the home likely became nonviable, leaving the lodgers to find new arrangements. Some may have found other boarding houses, some may have transitioned to more formal care facilities, and some were probably taken in by family. That last option appears to have been Rose’s fate.
At some point after 1950, Rose returned to live with her mother, Margaret Branstuder Stephenson Blanton, and stepfather, Oscar Blanton, in St. Joseph. She died there in 1967. Margaret passed away in 1974, and her sister Dulcie in 2007. We still don’t know the nature of Rose’s condition, but clearly she needed support, whether institutional or familial, for much of her adult life.
One of my goals in exploring this branch of my grandfather’s extended family was to learn more about Rose and ensure that her story was not lost. Through census records, death certificates, and FamilySearch entries, I’ve been able to help restore her rightful place in the historical record.